We don’t have to talk a women into having sex.
Women love sex! They actually WANT to have sex.
Okay, well maybe if she has sex out of obligation… Or if sex for her is’t fun… then maybe she won’t want it.
But if she ENJOYS the sex… why would anyone NOT want to do something that feels awesome?
Then you look at a book like Nancy Friday’s “Secret Garden” about women’s fantasies.
And you see a theme. A lot of women’s fantasies have to do with being dominated, “ravaged,” and “taken.” You realize, women don’t just love sex, they love to get FUCKED!
What does that mean?
#1. FUCK her.
You don’t always have to make “sweet love” to a woman. Of course there’s a time and a place for that. And women do enjoy it. But women also love to get raunchy, animalistic, and naughty. They love dirty talk, they love to be taboo, and they love to be dominated. Women are horny and deeply sexual.
So, talk dirty. Make noise. Pull her hair. Pin her hands behind her head. Slap her ass. Feel her tits. Pick her up. Bend her over. Throw her on the bed. Fuck her pussy. GET IN TOUCH WITH THE ANIMAL WITHIN. Get completely and totally turned on by her. Dominate her. And above all, ENJOY being with her.
#2. Don’t Be Judgmental.
Never EVER pass judgment on her sexuality. It’s GREAT that she’s sexual! Love it.
And isn’t weird that there’s no equivalent derogatory word “slut” for a man? You call a man a “male slut” and it’s almost a compliment. The concept “slut” imprisons women, it doesn’t liberate them.
The more you’re okay with her sexuality, the more she’ll be comfortable enough to unleash the sexual MONSTER inside of her. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Love it love it love it.
#3. Attitude — She Wants You
You already have what she wants. You have a cock and she wants it. Never have to talk a woman into sex. Never have to kiss her ass to get laid. Never have to spend loads of money on her to fuck her. Just turn her on.
#4. GIve Her Sex She ENJOYS
Make her FEEL good inside, and turn her body on. Both. Technique won’t do it alone. Then make sure she has an orgasm before you do. And watch out. She’ll be begging YOU for sex.
David Shade was the first person to open my eyes to this. My experiences with women have shown this to be true over and over and over again. And, let me tell you, there’s nothing more beautiful in the world than a woman in ecstasy. She WANTS to get fucked, so goddammit FUCK her!
DING, DING, DING, your absolutely right!! Did you read my blog and put this story together? Just kidding!
Haha. You were definitely part of the inspiration. Reading other women’s blogs inspired me too. They just corroborated my personal experience that women are highly sexual creatures.
But you watch TV, listen to what our parents and even women and other guys tell us, and lots of guys think we have to cajole a woman into bed. It’s crap! And it’s a belief that holds us back from success with women.
I love your blog by the way. It’s fun and can help us guys destroy those self-limiting beliefs.
just read parts of your blog, the things you write may work out, but there’s an ethical issue with that, because the “woman” does not exist, you realize that, when you get into gender science. so women are not highly sexual creatures. humans are highly sexual creatures. so if you live somewhere were women get access to high quality education, you can not derivate a lot of tricks/ideas of these stereotypes anymore…
You’re right. Humans ARE sexual.
Unfortunately, there’s a stereotype out there that men are more sexual than women. That men have to talk women into bed or buy her stuff to get her into bed. I’m challenging this stereotype here.
As for tricks… no tricks here. Just seeing women as sexual. And giving them what they really want.
It’s a good one! Hey thanks for liking mine today too! It’s interesting we seem to write from a different perspective yet about the same thing..Anyways I like this article. Have you checked out my books yet? They are full of my fantasies…
I haven’t but I’d love to!
Why does it feel good??
I don’t know. Good question. Maybe because it feels divine.
Love your page just wanting more but its ok
I take your comment as a serious compliment. So, thank-you for that.
The reason I haven’t posted more on this subject is I’ve been putting all my energy into writing a book about this stuff. It’s almost done. It should be done by March.
Thanks for saying that though. Did you check out the stuff on the sidebar inside the box labeled “Archives on Sex”? If you haven’t, I’d love to hear what you think. And I hope to be posting more very soon.
Thanks again, Rosemary!
Nice fucking article
And you’re the fucking man. Thanks for the comment.