Mastery with Women

Mastery with women can seem like it’s concealed

Is mastery of success with women possible?

There’s a book called “Mastery” by George Leonard.

Highly recommended

In it, Leonard says mastery isn’t a final place of arrival. It’s simply a practice. In other words, mastery isn’t a goal or destination, but rather a process or journey. He makes the point that mastery isn’t a special ticket available only for the super-talented, it’s available to anyone who’s willing to get on the path and stay on it, despite any obstacles or plateaus that we’ll inevitably encounter.

In Double Your Dating, David DeAngelo, following Leonard’s wisdom, claimed it takes about 2-4 years just to get “good” at something. And that’s JUST TO GET GOOD. (page 21 of DYD) Like martial arts, or playing an instrument, it takes time to master an art. Then David D speculates it takes another 2-4 years to become a “master.”

In Neil Strauss’s Annihilation video series, Mystery said he thought that when a pickup artist could approach 5 beautiful women in a row and each approach resulted in a “sexual” relationship of some sort, a pickup artist could be said to have achieved mastery.

But Leonard says even when you’re at these levels, you’re still not a master unless you keep the attitude of you’re a beginner. In other words, if you get complacent, you’ll lose it. More importantly, I think his point was we’ll always have more to learn.

So, there’s no final place. Not even a Medal of Honor makes someone a master. Mastery is just being on the path, a never-ending path of growth.

I want to master the pick up arts, so bad. I’d love to be like Mystery or Style, seducing any beautiful woman I want. But I have to remind myself that I’m not on this journey for glory, but for the deep joy that comes from practicing and growing.

So from Leonard’s perspective, mastery with women is absolutely possible—as long as we keep at it.

A never-ending path of growth–mastery with women unconcealed

2 thoughts on “Mastery with Women

  1. ?eef OrDie SrCd

    I would like to say one day I achieved mastery … so I think of ways to define it … and the best way I can do that is that mastery happens when I feel mastery …

    in other words … when I feel so confident and fluent … and I am emotionally driven to believe that I have become a master … a point where I feel entitlement towards the word itself … that is what I aim for … so I continue working until one day an emotional urge hits me … and cause is me to verbalize … “you know what … I can truly say I am a master at this” … until then …

    of course mastery isn’t a final destination … I will always continue learning for the sake of learning … we have a limited time on this planet … the goal is to gather as much survival and replication value possible in that time frame … and quickly pass it on to others (an offspring in my preference) … to give him/her a head start … in continuing the replication of my genes 😉


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