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“Six Characteristics of an Alpha Male,” By Mystery

11 Nov

1. “The number one characteristic of an alpha male is the smile. Smile when you enter a room. As soon as you walk in a club, the game is on. And by smiling, you look like you’re together, you’re fun, and you’re somebody.

2. “Be well-groomed.”

Shower. Soap yourself at least three times to smell really clean. Brush your teeth. Make sure your breath smells good. Carry gum if you have to. Put on a great smelling deodorant. If you’re going to put on cologne, make sure it’s just a DAB. Have your fashion together: wear at least one interesting item of clothing. If you look average, you’re going to get average girls. Alpha males don’t blend in, they stand out. At the very least, dress the best you can.

3. “Possess a sense of humor.”

See my post “Flirting” for more info on this. Banter, cocky-funny, and negs are all great techniques to make women laugh in an attractive way.

4. “Connect with people.”

Don’t do all the talking. Listen. That means get where a person is coming from. Put yourself in their shoes. Also, at bottom, every person wants to feel important. Don’t knock people down. Make people feel important.

5. “Be the social center of a room.”

See my post “The Key To Picking Up Chicks Is Not Picking Them Up” for more on this. Mystery is famous for saying “there are the observers and the observed. Be the observed.” The three second rule isn’t just opening the first attractive women you see. It means opening the first people you see period. Talk to everyone, even if it’s a simple “How’s your night going?” Bartenders, Bouncers, ugly girls, guys. Be the social center of a room.

6. “Confidence.”

Confidence comes from competence. You’re the prize. You’re the selector. Not her. If you don’t know this about yourself yet, fake it till you make. Dwell on your positive attributes and your accomplishments (not your drawbacks and failures). Keep telling yourself you’re the catch and she’s lucky talking with you. That belief translates into confidence. And women will smell it off you like cologne.

You can find these six characteristics in “The Game” by Neil Strauss (page 21-22).

For now, practice smiling when you enter a room. When you’re walking down the street, give a smile to at least three people. And next time you’re at a register, ask the cashier “how’s your day going?” or try out a banter line on her. You’ll be on your way to developing confidence, and the characteristics of an alpha male.

 
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Posted by on November 11, 2012 in Home, Inner, M3 Model

 

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2 responses to ““Six Characteristics of an Alpha Male,” By Mystery

  1. Socialkenny

    November 16, 2012 at 9:40 am

    All the points are great and should already be hardwired for men.

    However, point #1 is crucial and most underrated. Smiling is so fucking important, I can’t begin to stress it enough! And the irony is, I’ve heard other coaches advocate to NOT smile. That’s totally fucking ridiculous! Sure the Alpha badboy look is critical, but at least have a sly smile opposed to a blank non-animated face.

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    • renaissan

      November 18, 2012 at 7:39 pm

      Exactly! I like what you say about a “blank, non-animated face.” That hits it on the head. Women are emotional creatures. A blank, non-animated face is the equivalent of a monotone voice. Mystery is famous for saying that “a willingness to emote” is one of the five attraction switches hardwired into a woman’s mind that we can trigger to create attraction. A smile is one way to trigger this switch, and is very attractive to women. Thanks for bringing this very important point home, Kenny!

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