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Create Attraction By Walking Away

24 Sep

This is such a simple technique, but a lot of guys don’t do it.

Ready for it?

Walk away.

Simple as that.

You can do this when you approach a woman. And you can do it when you’re on a day 2 with her.

Tell me if you’ve ever felt this way when you’re on a Day 2 with her.

You walk into a local shop together to look around, and you feel like you have to be attached to her hip every step of the way.

Ever done that before? I know I have.

Yikes.

Luckily, you don’t have to do that. In fact, DON’T.

Walk away. Give her a little space. Check out something that catches your eye, then rejoin her.

You’ll be WAAAAAAAAY more attractive if you do.

Same exact thing on the approach.

God knows I’ve made this mistake. Tell me if it sounds familiar.

You see a hot girl with a friend or two walking to a bar. You stop them, and you stand perfectly square across from the hot one, with your feet planted in the cement like you were a statue and you deliver your entire opener to her, completely ignoring the other girls.

Then you wonder why the hot girl is looking for an escape, and why her friends are trying to drag her away.

Okay, so obviously ignoring the friends = bad. Make eye contact with every person in the group. Wanna keep everyone’s attention? Hello eye contact.

And then of course, don’t plant your feet into the pavement. What, are you a tree now? And don’t have your body perfectly square to one girl.

Walk away.

Have your feet and your body face away from her, as if you’re about to leave. Better yet, stand side by side with one of the girls.

Ahhhhh. Much better. And much friendlier.

After you deliver your opener, walk away if you have to. You can always notice something else, like their ring, and continue the conversation with something like the ring routine.

Or if you run into them again, you can say hi. No longer strangers. Nice.

And of course, if you walk away, there’s a good chance they’ll want to reengage you.

Why?

There’s something about walking away that creates attraction.

You don’t have to be the most incredibly polite person the world has ever seen. You can be a normal human being. And walk away.

We pursue that which retreats. The negative space creates attraction. A negative pole draws in the positive. Giving her that space makes her feel more comfortable, and it allows her to come to you.

That’s what I’m talking about.

 
4 Comments

Posted by on September 24, 2012 in A1 Opening, Home

 

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4 responses to “Create Attraction By Walking Away

  1. Socialkenny

    September 24, 2012 at 6:39 am

    It’s nice to get reminders like this.

    I totally advocate such behavior on dates while most guys never show a willingness to walk away (at least for a moment).

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    • renaissan

      September 24, 2012 at 6:07 pm

      Exactly. That’s all it takes. A willingness to walk away. So simple yet speaks volumes

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  2. Pauly

    November 13, 2012 at 7:51 pm

    Very powerful…just like the ignoring game…give me some attention!! NO, what ur turn, I’ll get to ya soon enough!

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    • renaissan

      November 14, 2012 at 10:16 am

      Exactly. The opposition is like a magnet that pulls her in. But like anything else, too much and it breaks the attraction together. That’s why we have to balance the disinterest with interest, too. Thanks for the comment Pauly!

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