Here are three steps I’ve learned from people smarter than me about how to listen:
1. First, listen without interrupting. Shut out everything else except what a person’s saying.
2. Second, ask for clarification: “how do you mean?”
3. Third, repeat back in your own words.
I can’t tell you how seductive it is to be a great listener. Shows you care. Shows you’re tuned into this woman right here right now.
Incidentally, being a great listener is also the key to being a great lover.
bossymoksie
April 30, 2014 at 3:48 pm
Women love it when men somehow show they’ve been listening. Definitely a turn on.
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renaissan
May 6, 2014 at 6:28 pm
Exactly! Thank-you for reiterating this from the female perspective.
And you know what? I know it’s a turn on for me when a woman listens to what I have to say. You feel heard. And like she cares.
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