How To Listen: Three Awesome Steps

18 Apr



Here are three steps I’ve learned from people smarter than me about how to listen:

1. First, listen without interrupting. Shut out everything else except what a person’s saying.

2. Second, ask for clarification: “how do you mean?”

3. Third, repeat back in your own words.

I can’t tell you how seductive it is to be a great listener. Shows you care. Shows you’re tuned into this woman right here right now.

Incidentally, being a great listener is also the key to being a great lover.

listening and conversation


Posted by on April 18, 2014 in C1-C3 Comfort, Home


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3 responses to “How To Listen: Three Awesome Steps

  1. bossymoksie

    April 30, 2014 at 3:48 pm

    Women love it when men somehow show they’ve been listening. Definitely a turn on.


    • renaissan

      May 6, 2014 at 6:28 pm

      Exactly! Thank-you for reiterating this from the female perspective.

      And you know what? I know it’s a turn on for me when a woman listens to what I have to say. You feel heard. And like she cares.



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