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Sex Tips, Part 10: Some Sweet-Ass Moves


You’re about to read about some sweet-ass moves, like in this picture here

For the final installment I’m gonna give you some sweet-ass moves you can use on your woman:

1. Cup her pussy. Just hold her pussy, maybe rub a little bit. Don’t have to do much else. The pressure of your hand is a turn-on. She’ll start rubbing her pussy in your hand and turn herself on.

2. Massage her ass. You’ll rub her vaginal lips, and indirectly her clit, too. Does the trick.

3. Rub her clit and G-spot at the same time. Doubly-whammy, baby!

4. Thrust into the space between her pussy and thighs. Little tease. Little something different.

Don't put it in yet.

Don’t put it all the way in yet.

5. Slip your tip in, then slide it over her clit. Drives her wild. Don’t give her what she wants yet. Nice!

6. Put your thigh between her legs. Let her rub herself on you.

7. Push her tits together and lick.

8. Watch her masturbate. Can’t tell you how much I’ve learned about how to please her by watching her please herself. Feel free to masturbate while she’s doing this.

9. Don’t go all the way in yet. I love this one. Go a half inch for a little while. Then an inch for awhile. Then two inches in for awhile. She’ll be begging you to put it in. DON’T DO IT! Keep teasing her. Inch by tortuous inch. By the time you’re in she’ll have been so close to orgasming, she’ll probably explode. Anticipation baby!

10. Blindfold and stimulate all 5 senses.

Blindfold her. Then titillate each of her senses one by one. GREAT move.

Blindfold her. Then titillate each of her senses one by one. GREAT move.

Women are sensual creatures. While blindfolded, give her some things to TASTE like fruit, wine, whip cream. Give her some stuff to FEEL on her skin, like silk, a feather, your tongue, an ice cube on her thighs, your cock inside her. Give her some things to HEAR, like music playing in the background, you singing or playing an instrument, you reading something hot to her. Give her something to SMELL, like incense or scented candles burning. Finally, give her something to SEE. Take off her blindfold. You’re naked and ready to rip in her half.

11. Stop in the middle of fucking her and just look into her eyes. She might ask “what are you doing.” Just tell her you want to look into her eyes. Let the good feelings flood over the two of you. Talk about intimacy and an emotional connection.

Emotional connection. ALWAYS a sweet-ass move.

Emotional connection. ALWAYS a sweet-ass move.

12. Look into her eyes while you orgasm.

13. When she’s orgasming, tell her to look into your eyes. The emotional connection will make it a more intense orgasm for her.

14. Give her a bath. Have some music playing in the background. Soap her up, rinse, and dry her. Pamper her, take care of her.

15. Role play. Imagine you’re somewhere, like fucking on a park bench and anyone can walk by at anytime. You can role play stories, too, like she’s the naughty schoolgirl and you’re the principal. Women’s literature gives some great ideas for roleplaying. One book that comes to mind: “If It Feels Good,” by Joan Elizabeth Lloyd. Some great ideas in there.

The takeaway: technique is only 30% of the game. 70% is psychologically turning on her mind and feelings. Um, yes, I just made up those statistics. My point is simply this. Her mind is her biggest and best sex organ. Turn THAT on.


The best sex tip there is: turn on her mind and her pussy will follow.