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Women love to get FUCKED!

We don’t have to talk a woman into having sex.

Women love sex! They actually WANT sex.

Only problem is they deal with cultural stuff surrounding sex. More than us. You know, being seen as a “slut.” For us, someone calls us that, it’s almost a compliment.

Why the double-standard?

Women are seen as the “guardians” of sex. I mean, if a woman doesn’t open the “door” to us and we force our way in… well, there are laws against that. Even though she’s got the SAME EXACT desires we have, if she opens the “door” too easily, she gets chastised, ostracized.

At least that’s the story. But to what extent is that story meant to “control” women?

A woman’s sexuality is like an ocean. It’s large, powerful, flowing, changing, receptive. Men take a dip inside and come out limp. Not to mention her sexuality can bring the strongest of us to our knees. Hello Samson. And then of course there are the husbands who’ve historically worried whether his children really are his.

So, to what extent is that word “slut” meant to control women’s sexuality? ‘Cause I don’t see why women can’t enjoy the same freedom to enjoy sex as we do.

Agree with me, disagree with me. I don’t care. My point is this.

One big reason women SEEM like they’re not into sex as much as us is because they have the social consequences to deal with. As well as pregnancy consequences. And even emotional consequences (sex is often an emotional experience for women).

They hide their desires.

Doesn’t mean they don’t want it. ‘Cause they do. Oh, man do they. They just have more stuff to deal with around it than we do. They don’t want to be judged, so they hide it.

“No, no, no, no,” I hear someone saying. “I’ve been with my wife for twelve years and she won’t give me any. How do you explain that?”

Hey, if she has sex out of obligation… Or if sex isn’t fun or pleasurable… of course she won’t want it.

But if she ENJOYS the sex… why would anyone NOT want something that’s pleasurable?

Still don’t believe me? Look at a book like Nancy Friday’s “Secret Garden.”

Nancy Friday is a journalist who had collected women’s most secret sexual thoughts and fantasies. That book’s a collection of women’s fantasies from the mouths of real women.

Read that and you soon see how CRAZY sexual women are.

Not only that, you see a theme. A lot of women’s fantasies have to do with being dominated, “ravaged,” and “taken.” You realize, women don’t just love sex, they love to get FUCKED!

What does that mean?

#1. Don’t Be Judgmental.

Never EVER pass judgment on her sexuality. It’s GREAT that she’s sexual! Love it. Let her be free. Make her feel comfortable letting go and being so sexual with you.

The more comfortable she is letting go (because she knows you won’t judge her), the more comfortable she’ll be to unleash the sexual BEAST inside of her.

And really… Is there anything more beautiful than a woman in ecstasy?

I know. Of course there isn’t.

#2. Attitude — She Wants You

You already have what she wants. You have a cock. She wants that, man.

So, you never have to talk a woman into sex. You never have to kiss her ass. You never have to spend loads of money in order to “get” sex from her.

After you make her feel comfortable with sex, all you’ve gotta do is turn her on. Believe me, she’ll want it then.

Well how do you do that?

#3. GIve Her Sex She ENJOYS

Turn on her mind. Her mind is her largest sex organ. Turn on her mind, and her body will follow.

That means physical sex techniques won’t turn her on alone. You’ve gotta also use psychological sex techniques. Those are even more important.

What are psychological sex techniques? Turning on her mind. Meaning…

  • First, you’ve gotta shut off the “slut” threat inside her, and make her feel comfortable giving herself to you. One prime way to make her feel comfortable: massages. Give her a massage. Even better? A leg and foot massage. Most guys, including myself, forget to massage a woman’s lower body. But relaxing her lower body goes a loooong way to relaxing her whole body.
  • Second, you’ve gotta make her feel beautiful and sexy and desirable. That means getting completely and totally turned on by her. In addition, she’s gotta feel liked not just for her looks, but for her as a HUMAN BEING. Complicated? Check.
  • Third, you’ve gotta spend plenty of time with foreplay. Her second biggest sex organ is her skin all over. Her va-jay-jay comes in third place. So, spend time exploring her skin all over before touching her sexual bits and pieces. This teases her, and turns her mind on even more.

Man, let me tell you. She’ll be wet and BEGGING you for sex. Ha!

#4. FUCK her.

But you don’t always have to make “sweet love” to her.

Of course women enjoy that. But once you’ve got the water boiling, women ALSO love getting raunchy, animalistic, naughty. They love dirty talk, being taboo, being dominated.

Women are horny, man, HORNY.

Well, how do you “take” her?

  • Talk dirty
  • Make noise (be expressive, not just silent)
  • Pull her hair
  • Pin her hands behind her head
  • Slap her ass
  • Feel her breasts
  • Pick her up
  • Bend her over
  • Throw her on the bed
  • Fuck her pussy

GET IN TOUCH WITH THE ANIMAL WITHIN. Dominate her. ENJOY her.

Now, ladies come first. It’s the gentlemanly thing to do.

But I even hesitate writing that. I mean, definitely let a girl come before you. And if you come before she does, make sure to take care of your girl. But great sex isn’t just about the orgasm. A TOY can make her come for God’s sakes.

Great sex is more about paying attention to her.

And connecting with her. It’s like the old saying: the journey’s more important than the destination.

Let me tell you a quick story about this.

I had sex with this BEAUTIFUL girl who eventually became my girlfriend. One night we were reminiscing about the first time we had sex. I’ll never forget what she said: “I don’t even remember whether I had an orgasm or not, but I just remember the sex being REALLY good.”

Why? I had paid attention to her.

Now, there were other times I had sex with her and tried too hard to give her orgasm. And you know what? She DID have an orgasm. But the sex wasn’t as good. Go figure.

So, orgasms are cool but even more important to having great sex: paying attention to the way her body responds moment-to-moment, rapport, making her feel beautiful and liked as a human being. AND also TAKING her, DESIRING her, ENJOYING her.

Then after it’s all done, making her feel beautiful.

Again?

Yes, again. “I can’t hold you close enough”… a satisfying ending will ensure she’ll be coming back to you for more.

My point it simple. She WANTS sex and she WANTS to be taken. So TAKE her!

Unleash her ocean of sexuality. And make her feel good about it along the way.

 

39 responses to “Women love to get FUCKED!

  1. CAWhite

    November 29, 2012 at 6:59 pm

    Um. Yes, please. Well said.

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  2. CAWhite

    November 29, 2012 at 7:00 pm

    My Secret Garden is on my desk and I read it daily!

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    • renaissan

      December 12, 2013 at 9:23 pm

      Haha nice! I love that book. Isn’t it fantastic?

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  3. Dave

    August 20, 2013 at 3:19 pm

    CAWhite, you are hot!!!

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  4. imran

    September 23, 2013 at 4:49 pm

    i love women

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    • renaissan

      September 24, 2013 at 12:39 pm

      Good for you. I think we all do. They inspire, right?

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  5. Phuq Obama

    October 7, 2013 at 6:27 pm

    Such bullshit. I had a girlfriend who loved to get fucked several times a day but she NEVER asked for it. I got her in the mood and made her orgasm several times. The last time we fucked she sat on the floor balled up just holding herself saying that it was the best thing she ever felt. But even with that she moved on to someone else who couldn’t satisfy her like I did.

    My wife only likes getting fucked after I spend an hour or more working on her, masturbating her and getting her to climax before I ever stick my dick in her. Yes she moans and when I ask if she had an orgasm she says which time but still it takes a very long time to get her to that point and she NEVER asks to get fucked. She NEVER initiates sex so your stories based on my experience with two completely different women who are 10 years apart in age.

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    • renaissan

      December 12, 2013 at 9:22 pm

      So, which part is bullshit? I didn’t say women always initiate sex. I said they love to get fucked.

      Testosterone is the aggressive sex drive, estrogen is the inviting sex drive. So, of course she’s not gonna be aggressive in initiating sex. That’s our job.

      So, initiate. Fuck her good. And be damn proud of it.

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  6. Melissa

    November 17, 2013 at 5:39 am

    This is on point. At least for me except I ALWAYS initiated and I’m getting tired of that! There’s time we’re i tell him what exactly what I want but doesn’t really go that way and Iam unsatisfied…

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    • renaissan

      November 17, 2013 at 9:18 am

      Thank-you for saying that and for taking the time to comment. It always helps to have a female perspective.

      It’s unsatisfying for a woman to do all the initiating. One other reason for this might be because part of turning a woman on is desiring her. So, when we initiate sex it shows our woman how much we desire her.

      The funny thing is not only does it turn out to be more satisfying for a woman if we initiate, but I find it’s waaay more fun, too. It just makes you feel more like the man.

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    • wolph

      February 8, 2014 at 7:37 pm

      This is true, and yet not universal. I have had plenty of experiences where a woman initiated the experience (granted, only one when this was also the first time!), and was very happy with the outcome. The situation I speak of is where she is viewing you as a challenge, is chasing you, and sees the conquest as her accomplishment. I usually achieve this by giving her enough hints that I am popular with women (not by intent, but just as it naturally happens in conversations) and she quickly jumps to her own conclusions and attempts to prove herself to be better.

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      • renaissan

        February 9, 2014 at 2:46 pm

        That makes sense when you’ve had sex for the first time. And it’s great to have your girl initiate sex sometimes when you’re in a long-term relationship. But it’s not so great when you’re in a long-term relationship and it’s ONLY your girl who’s initiating sex. That’s not so good.

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  7. Seymour

    June 13, 2014 at 2:18 pm

    This is the case for single women but is the same information true when In a relationship for ten years

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    • renaissan

      June 15, 2014 at 2:59 am

      Oh, hell yeah. In fact, the guy I learned this stuff from, David Shade, talks mostly about a woman a man’s been with for like ten years… and giving her mad, wild, crazy pleasure. When I said, “give her sex she enjoys” this very, very much applies to a long-term relationship.

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  8. curious

    August 30, 2014 at 2:45 am

    I am a girl and a virgin.. having read your articles, I feel like I am missing out on a lot.. cant wait to have sex with a good looking man..lol… I am curious as to how one feels at the end of it though.. worn out? Sleepy? By the way I love men and it melts my insides when I see a man and picture whats going on in his head . Especially if he gives me that particular sexy smile or stare.. do u think I am ready for sex? Lol.. I am in my mid 20s :p

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    • renaissan

      August 31, 2014 at 6:33 am

      Um, definitely. You’ve probably been ready for a while. I’m curious, what made you wait this long?

      As for what if feels like at the end… it’s one of the best parts of sex. There’s this afterglow where you feel closer than you did before. I usually feel like I can’t hold my girl close enough. And you feel like you don’t even have to talk, just bask in all the good feelings you’ve created with each other. If you do end up talking, it’s as if you can open your hearts to each other. It’s wonderful.

      By the way, thanks for your comment. I’m glad you found me, but, again out of curiosity, how did you?

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      • curious

        September 12, 2014 at 11:59 pm

        Lol how did I what? :)

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      • curious

        October 23, 2014 at 1:17 pm

        Hey Renaissan.. I have a bit of a problem here.. I have always been the shy type.. but on the other hand I have always wanted to be the kinda girl guys like the most.. but for sone reason, guys who dont know me dont seem to be interested in me.. maybe bcoz I m too skinny and look too young for my age.. guys 10-15 yrs younger tend to flirt with me and I hate this.. the kinf of guys I like- the manly ones- wont so much as look at me twice. They always stare at the hotter more confident friends of mine who are ironically younger than me but look older :( I am the shy type and keep my gaze low. I cant stare at guys or smile at them like my friends do.. but this duznt mean I dont wana be noticed. No matter what I wear , I end up looking decent at best. I dont think I ll ever look hot or sexy while in reality, my mind and my thoughts are probably sexier than other girls out there .lol.. can you give a guys perspective on this? What attracts you guys ? Are u guys only into hot girls who give you smiles or show you skin? What do you guys think about shy girls? And whats even more frustraing is the fact that I am attracted to the pua playboy type guys, (never dated someone like that in real though).. while all those friends of mine who can easily attract puas are hunting for decent guys.. I just dont get it :(

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  9. renaissan

    September 17, 2014 at 12:42 pm

    @curious: how did you find me? This website

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    • curious

      September 19, 2014 at 5:18 am

      Ummm… I was always curious about the pickup community..how a pickup artists mind works.. why he does what he does.. so it led me here :)

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      • renaissan

        October 1, 2014 at 12:13 am

        But there’re so many pickup sites out there. How’d you find this one?

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    • curious

      October 7, 2014 at 3:06 am

      Well I dont rember exactly.. I was googling pickup communities.. and ur page popped up in the search as far as I gather… I liked the layout of your website.. it was better than those other pua forums which were all full of text really..hehe

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      • renaissan

        October 14, 2014 at 5:09 pm

        Well, I’m glad you found me! And I appreciate you reading.

        By the way, speaking about how a pickup artist’s mind works: there are sketchy pua’s out there and there pua’s who see pickup as a way a man can better himself.

        Now, even though there’re lots of differences in the way a pua’s mind works, there’s probably one thing we all have in common. Before we found pickup most of us felt unattractive, and lost with women. The art of pickup gave us a beacon of hope. Basically, we wanted to feel loved.

        However after learning the art, some use the knowledge for ego reasons. You know, sleep with as many women as possible and brag about it afterwards: “Look how awesome I am.”

        But the best pua’s are the ones who use the arts not to get love or to get women, but to give love, to know himself better, and to become a better man. I hope this blog falls into that last category.

        If you have any other questions about how a pua’s mind works, please don’t hesitate to ask. I would love to answer them. Thanks again for reading.

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      • renaissan

        October 27, 2014 at 12:25 am

        Whatever you did in that last message to me worked. I’m curious about you. I’m a pua and you’ve attracted me. You’re skinny, look young, have a sexy mind, but you’re shy. You sound like an attractive woman who doesn’t know she’s attractive. Which makes you even hotter.

        And I hate to give you this other answer that might be a cop-out, but whatever. A sexy mind with an decent appearance trumps a smoking-hot appearance with an okay sexy mind. Every time. In other words, having a sexy mind makes you sexier than your mentally unsexy friends.

        Here’s another cop-out answer: “different strokes for different folks.” I happen to like shy girls who are secretly sexy but are slightly under-confident. That attracts me personally to no end. So, if you’re not attracting the kind of guy who you want to be attracted to, that’s his loss, and he deserves it.

        But I want to give you a non-cop-out answer, too. To make yourself more attractive to the kind of guy you want to be attracted to, I’d have to see a pic. Guys get attracted visibly, so I’d have to see what you look like to give you the best answer. Send me see a pic. I’m at renaissanpua@gmail.com, or you can friend me on Facebook “Renaissan Pua.”

        Oh, and one last thing. Being a pua and a decent guy aren’t mutually exclusive. ;)

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    • curious

      October 30, 2014 at 1:22 am

      Lol. Thnx for all the cop-out and non-cop-out answers :) I am very moody too.. sometimes I think about these things (sex etc) all the time for many days in a row.. and other days, I dont even wana hear or think about it. It disgusts me :( about the pic, I am a good looking person thank God :p but guys dont seem to go for looks.. they notice girls who flirt with them. Invite them.. I feel like guys dont want to trouble themselves by going after apparently shy or uninterested girls.. maybe bcox they have sooo many options available these days.. anyways I hope I didnt waste much of ur tym. By the way, I looked you up on facebook . U are with a very average chick in ur profile picture :p I expected better from you..lol

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      • renaissan

        October 30, 2014 at 9:17 pm

        Um, that girl is hot. She’s a model, an artist, a writer, she’s sexual and sexy. Did you send me a friend request? And what happened to my pic?

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    • curious

      November 5, 2014 at 10:43 pm

      Umm I hv sent u my pic on ur facebook inbox :p

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      • renaissan

        November 5, 2014 at 11:41 pm

        You are absolutely adorable. Thanks for sending me the pic. I think I’ve got a better answer to your question now…

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    • curious

      November 7, 2014 at 11:04 pm

      And what is that answer? :p

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      • renaissan

        November 9, 2014 at 9:32 pm

        Showing your personality.

        It’s funny because that’s exactly what the pickup arts do for us guys. They take shy guys that girls would otherwise overlook and they teach a guy to bring out his personality.

        Another funny thing: personality comes from the Greek word “persona,” for mask. Whether right or wrong, it seems like we human-beings are “attracted” to the kind of mask we put on to the world.

        You’re VERY pretty, but if a girl who had your looks had her eyes downcast or she wasn’t smiling, a guy may not notice her. Her mask might blend into the background.

        But if your face were bright and smiling and laughing it’s almost as if a person turned on lights inside her house. Your mask would become more approachable. And guys would be drawn to you like moths to a flame.

        I’m like you. I’m shy. Before pickup, I was frustrated because I was overlooked by girls so much. Couldn’t they see the good I offered?

        When I learned pickup I learned to bring out my persona. Things changed. I was the same exact person, but by tweaking my “mask”… making eye contact, smiling, laughing, spreading some cheer, getting curious about people… girls seemed to notice me more.

        If you raised your gaze and smiled, I wonder what would happen next…

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    • curious

      November 10, 2014 at 7:42 am

      I think puas are nice guys from the inside.. yes, I am shy like you once were.. but I wouldnt change that even if it would guarantee sending the smartest guys my way.. I dont know why.. it is probably bcoz I am a girl but I dont like sleeping with too many people idea.. I understand that for men, it could mean completely different.. I like attention like all human beings.. I hate feeling ignored.. maybe it is bcoz I am very competetive by nature.. its not only about guys..I want to excel in everything.. but that does NOT include sleeping with many people.. I think that is unnecessary even if it is fun.. I think you are an amazing guy and there should be more to your life than attracting all the girls on the planet in a sexual way.. we cant and shouldnt go on having sec with every person we meet or everyone we like.. we have to set some boundaries.. even though we might like to do it in imagination.. lol… I also heard puas hate women.. and that rejection makes men sore and bitter and vengeful towards women.. I feel sorry when I hear that.. I also got sort of rejected once, but I havent made attracting all guys on earth the sole purpose of my life.. seems like puas are insecure from the inside.. I have only one problem with puas: why do they sleep with random women? It makes me uncomfortable when I think that is what puas actually do.. no matter how good looking or cool or funny or smart or sexy they are, they have slept with so many different women.. ewww.. I wouldnt want such man to be my husband or boyfriend despite the fact that I am attracted to them.. :/ :p

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      • renaissan

        November 12, 2014 at 10:38 pm

        Let me back up…

        I just read my last comment to you and I wish I could rewrite it. You’re right to respond the way you did. It almost sounded like “here are some things to change about you.” I am so sorry for implying that. There’s nothing “wrong” with you, you don’t have to change a thing. I think I was responding to your initial question, but that’s still no excuse. My apologies.

        With that said, let me respond to some of the stereotypes of puas that you hinted at. Those stereotypes aren’t true. Puas don’t hate women. We’re not bitter or vengeful towards them. I know I’m not. I LOVE women. And the pickup arts is less about sleeping with lots of women and more about becoming a better man that can attract a woman he likes naturally.

        While we’re on the subject of sleeping with every women under the sun, that’s not true either. I advocate a guy having standards, and sleeping with a woman only if he genuinely likes her and wants to see her again. There are definitely ethical boundaries when it comes to sex.

        Again, if I hadn’t written the comment in the way I had, you may not have written all that about the puas. So, I’ll take responsibility for that. I think you’re an awesome girl. You don’t have to change a thing.

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    • curious

      November 13, 2014 at 12:51 pm

      I think we dragged this conversation too far.. ur second last message was not offensive at all .. we should all help each other improve and point out our flaws. However I do think most pua guys seem average guys who have put on a mask as u said… to attract better looking or quality girls.. isnt that sort of stupid? You are pretending to be someone you actually are not- only to get into someones pants ( or lets say spend time with them).. I believe puas could do a better job by improving themselves, by focusing on themselves, and by being content with what life is offering to them.. if they improve themselves without the intention of attracting quality girls, they ll naturally attract the right person without having to approach groups of girls with rehearsed sentences and tricks. Yes, men should initiate..but not with the intention the puas do. They should genuinely want to be with the person and not use that interaction as a tool to improve their success rate or give boost to their egos!

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      • renaissan

        November 17, 2014 at 2:19 am

        Agreed. And I don’t talk about using pickup to boost the ego or getting into people’s pants. God, no. I talk about using pickup as means to gaining self-confidence and becoming a more excellent man who attracts women naturally.

        The “mask” comment was an observation about human nature. We see what appears to us. Knowing this, we can bring out our best selves to the surface. For example: smiling, looking presentable, making strong eye contact. It’s not about “pretending.” It’s about being more self-aware and being a more effective communicator.

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  10. Karen

    October 10, 2014 at 1:29 am

    Hello i found your site by a search stating men who want to fuck. Sounds a little naughty but its hot to have a man just for sex.

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    • renaissan

      October 14, 2014 at 5:40 pm

      Thank-you! You just reiterated my point. Women are super sexual too. And a man who WANTS his woman is a turn-on. This female perspective helps a lot. Thanks for this comment, Karen.

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