Women love to get FUCKED!

We don’t have to talk a women into having sex.

Women love sex! They actually WANT to have sex.

Okay, well maybe if she has sex out of obligation… Or if sex for her is’t fun… then maybe she won’t want it.

But if she ENJOYS the sex… why would anyone NOT want to do something that feels awesome?

Then you look at a book like Nancy Friday’s “Secret Garden” about women’s fantasies.

And you see a theme. A lot of women’s fantasies have to do with being dominated, “ravaged,” and “taken.” You realize, women don’t just love sex, they love to get FUCKED!

What does that mean?

#1. FUCK her.

You don’t always have to make “sweet love” to a woman. Of course there’s a time and a place for that. And women do enjoy it. But women also love to get raunchy, animalistic, and naughty. They love dirty talk, they love to be taboo, and they love to be dominated. Women are horny and deeply sexual.

So, talk dirty. Make noise. Pull her hair. Pin her hands behind her head. Slap her ass. Feel her tits. Pick her up. Bend her over. Throw her on the bed. Fuck her pussy. GET IN TOUCH WITH THE ANIMAL WITHIN. Get completely and totally turned on by her. Dominate her. And above all, ENJOY being with her.

#2. Don’t Be Judgmental.

Never EVER pass judgment on her sexuality. It’s GREAT that she’s sexual! Love it.

And isn’t weird that there’s no equivalent derogatory word “slut” for a man? You call a man a “male slut” and it’s almost a compliment. The concept “slut” imprisons women, it doesn’t liberate them.

The more you’re okay with her sexuality, the more she’ll be comfortable enough to unleash the sexual MONSTER inside of her. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Love it love it love it.

#3. Attitude — She Wants You

You already have what she wants. You have a cock and she wants it. Never have to talk a woman into sex. Never have to kiss her ass to get laid. Never have to spend loads of money on her to fuck her. Just turn her on.

#4. GIve Her Sex She ENJOYS

Make her FEEL good inside, and turn her body on. Both. Technique won’t do it alone. Then make sure she has an orgasm before you do. And watch out. She’ll be begging YOU for sex.

David Shade was the first person to open my eyes to this. My experiences with women have shown this to be true over and over and over again. And, let me tell you, there’s nothing more beautiful in the world than a woman in ecstasy. She WANTS to get fucked, so goddammit FUCK her!


30 responses to “Women love to get FUCKED!

  1. CAWhite

    November 29, 2012 at 6:59 pm

    Um. Yes, please. Well said.


  2. CAWhite

    November 29, 2012 at 7:00 pm

    My Secret Garden is on my desk and I read it daily!


    • renaissan

      December 12, 2013 at 9:23 pm

      Haha nice! I love that book. Isn’t it fantastic?


  3. Dave

    August 20, 2013 at 3:19 pm

    CAWhite, you are hot!!!


  4. imran

    September 23, 2013 at 4:49 pm

    i love women


    • renaissan

      September 24, 2013 at 12:39 pm

      Good for you. I think we all do. They inspire, right?


  5. Phuq Obama

    October 7, 2013 at 6:27 pm

    Such bullshit. I had a girlfriend who loved to get fucked several times a day but she NEVER asked for it. I got her in the mood and made her orgasm several times. The last time we fucked she sat on the floor balled up just holding herself saying that it was the best thing she ever felt. But even with that she moved on to someone else who couldn’t satisfy her like I did.

    My wife only likes getting fucked after I spend an hour or more working on her, masturbating her and getting her to climax before I ever stick my dick in her. Yes she moans and when I ask if she had an orgasm she says which time but still it takes a very long time to get her to that point and she NEVER asks to get fucked. She NEVER initiates sex so your stories based on my experience with two completely different women who are 10 years apart in age.


    • renaissan

      December 12, 2013 at 9:22 pm

      So, which part is bullshit? I didn’t say women always initiate sex. I said they love to get fucked.

      Testosterone is the aggressive sex drive, estrogen is the inviting sex drive. So, of course she’s not gonna be aggressive in initiating sex. That’s our job.

      So, initiate. Fuck her good. And be damn proud of it.


  6. Melissa

    November 17, 2013 at 5:39 am

    This is on point. At least for me except I ALWAYS initiated and I’m getting tired of that! There’s time we’re i tell him what exactly what I want but doesn’t really go that way and Iam unsatisfied…


    • renaissan

      November 17, 2013 at 9:18 am

      Thank-you for saying that and for taking the time to comment. It always helps to have a female perspective.

      It’s unsatisfying for a woman to do all the initiating. One other reason for this might be because part of turning a woman on is desiring her. So, when we initiate sex it shows our woman how much we desire her.

      The funny thing is not only does it turn out to be more satisfying for a woman if we initiate, but I find it’s waaay more fun, too. It just makes you feel more like the man.


    • wolph

      February 8, 2014 at 7:37 pm

      This is true, and yet not universal. I have had plenty of experiences where a woman initiated the experience (granted, only one when this was also the first time!), and was very happy with the outcome. The situation I speak of is where she is viewing you as a challenge, is chasing you, and sees the conquest as her accomplishment. I usually achieve this by giving her enough hints that I am popular with women (not by intent, but just as it naturally happens in conversations) and she quickly jumps to her own conclusions and attempts to prove herself to be better.


      • renaissan

        February 9, 2014 at 2:46 pm

        That makes sense when you’ve had sex for the first time. And it’s great to have your girl initiate sex sometimes when you’re in a long-term relationship. But it’s not so great when you’re in a long-term relationship and it’s ONLY your girl who’s initiating sex. That’s not so good.


  7. Seymour

    June 13, 2014 at 2:18 pm

    This is the case for single women but is the same information true when In a relationship for ten years


    • renaissan

      June 15, 2014 at 2:59 am

      Oh, hell yeah. In fact, the guy I learned this stuff from, David Shade, talks mostly about a woman a man’s been with for like ten years… and giving her mad, wild, crazy pleasure. When I said, “give her sex she enjoys” this very, very much applies to a long-term relationship.


  8. curious

    August 30, 2014 at 2:45 am

    I am a girl and a virgin.. having read your articles, I feel like I am missing out on a lot.. cant wait to have sex with a good looking… I am curious as to how one feels at the end of it though.. worn out? Sleepy? By the way I love men and it melts my insides when I see a man and picture whats going on in his head . Especially if he gives me that particular sexy smile or stare.. do u think I am ready for sex? Lol.. I am in my mid 20s :p


    • renaissan

      August 31, 2014 at 6:33 am

      Um, definitely. You’ve probably been ready for a while. I’m curious, what made you wait this long?

      As for what if feels like at the end… it’s one of the best parts of sex. There’s this afterglow where you feel closer than you did before. I usually feel like I can’t hold my girl close enough. And you feel like you don’t even have to talk, just bask in all the good feelings you’ve created with each other. If you do end up talking, it’s as if you can open your hearts to each other. It’s wonderful.

      By the way, thanks for your comment. I’m glad you found me, but, again out of curiosity, how did you?


      • curious

        September 12, 2014 at 11:59 pm

        Lol how did I what? :)

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      • curious

        October 23, 2014 at 1:17 pm

        Hey Renaissan.. I have a bit of a problem here.. I have always been the shy type.. but on the other hand I have always wanted to be the kinda girl guys like the most.. but for sone reason, guys who dont know me dont seem to be interested in me.. maybe bcoz I m too skinny and look too young for my age.. guys 10-15 yrs younger tend to flirt with me and I hate this.. the kinf of guys I like- the manly ones- wont so much as look at me twice. They always stare at the hotter more confident friends of mine who are ironically younger than me but look older :( I am the shy type and keep my gaze low. I cant stare at guys or smile at them like my friends do.. but this duznt mean I dont wana be noticed. No matter what I wear , I end up looking decent at best. I dont think I ll ever look hot or sexy while in reality, my mind and my thoughts are probably sexier than other girls out there .lol.. can you give a guys perspective on this? What attracts you guys ? Are u guys only into hot girls who give you smiles or show you skin? What do you guys think about shy girls? And whats even more frustraing is the fact that I am attracted to the pua playboy type guys, (never dated someone like that in real though).. while all those friends of mine who can easily attract puas are hunting for decent guys.. I just dont get it :(

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  9. renaissan

    September 17, 2014 at 12:42 pm

    @curious: how did you find me? This website


    • curious

      September 19, 2014 at 5:18 am

      Ummm… I was always curious about the pickup a pickup artists mind works.. why he does what he does.. so it led me here :)


      • renaissan

        October 1, 2014 at 12:13 am

        But there’re so many pickup sites out there. How’d you find this one?


    • curious

      October 7, 2014 at 3:06 am

      Well I dont rember exactly.. I was googling pickup communities.. and ur page popped up in the search as far as I gather… I liked the layout of your website.. it was better than those other pua forums which were all full of text really..hehe


      • renaissan

        October 14, 2014 at 5:09 pm

        Well, I’m glad you found me! And I appreciate you reading.

        By the way, speaking about how a pickup artist’s mind works: there are sketchy pua’s out there and there pua’s who see pickup as a way a man can better himself.

        Now, even though there’re lots of differences in the way a pua’s mind works, there’s probably one thing we all have in common. Before we found pickup most of us felt unattractive, and lost with women. The art of pickup gave us a beacon of hope. Basically, we wanted to feel loved.

        However after learning the art, some use the knowledge for ego reasons. You know, sleep with as many women as possible and brag about it afterwards: “Look how awesome I am.”

        But the best pua’s are the ones who use the arts not to get love or to get women, but to give love, to know himself better, and to become a better man. I hope this blog falls into that last category.

        If you have any other questions about how a pua’s mind works, please don’t hesitate to ask. I would love to answer them. Thanks again for reading.


      • renaissan

        October 27, 2014 at 12:25 am

        Whatever you did in that last message to me worked. I’m curious about you. I’m a pua and you’ve attracted me. You’re skinny, look young, have a sexy mind, but you’re shy. You sound like an attractive woman who doesn’t know she’s attractive. Which makes you even hotter.

        And I hate to give you this other answer that might be a cop-out, but whatever. A sexy mind with an decent appearance trumps a smoking-hot appearance with an okay sexy mind. Every time. In other words, having a sexy mind makes you sexier than your mentally unsexy friends.

        Here’s another cop-out answer: “different strokes for different folks.” I happen to like shy girls who are secretly sexy but are slightly under-confident. That attracts me personally to no end. So, if you’re not attracting the kind of guy who you want to be attracted to, that’s his loss, and he deserves it.

        But I want to give you a non-cop-out answer, too. To make yourself more attractive to the kind of guy you want to be attracted to, I’d have to see a pic. Guys get attracted visibly, so I’d have to see what you look like to give you the best answer. Send me see a pic. I’m at, or you can friend me on Facebook “Renaissan Pua.”

        Oh, and one last thing. Being a pua and a decent guy aren’t mutually exclusive. ;)


    • curious

      October 30, 2014 at 1:22 am

      Lol. Thnx for all the cop-out and non-cop-out answers :) I am very moody too.. sometimes I think about these things (sex etc) all the time for many days in a row.. and other days, I dont even wana hear or think about it. It disgusts me :( about the pic, I am a good looking person thank God :p but guys dont seem to go for looks.. they notice girls who flirt with them. Invite them.. I feel like guys dont want to trouble themselves by going after apparently shy or uninterested girls.. maybe bcox they have sooo many options available these days.. anyways I hope I didnt waste much of ur tym. By the way, I looked you up on facebook . U are with a very average chick in ur profile picture :p I expected better from


  10. Karen

    October 10, 2014 at 1:29 am

    Hello i found your site by a search stating men who want to fuck. Sounds a little naughty but its hot to have a man just for sex.


    • renaissan

      October 14, 2014 at 5:40 pm

      Thank-you! You just reiterated my point. Women are super sexual too. And a man who WANTS his woman is a turn-on. This female perspective helps a lot. Thanks for this comment, Karen.



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